We have several options. No matter where we go DH works in the IT field and would easily be able to get another job.
1) stay in the area we are in now and live with his mother who has room for all us and would love to have us. He works as a part time consultant for a friend and could easily make it full time if needed. I would borrow money and continue my education. The girls could stay in the same schools.
2) We could go down south to the san diego area and live with Dh father and step mom who have room for us and DH could get a job down there.