I have no idea what exactly this entails, but I am in . :) I told a friend today that for 2012, my goal is to start LIVING again...not just going through the motions. I want to find ME again, make new or reaffirm friendships, create priorities and stick by them, and learn how to budget with what I have....and not have to panic everytime my ex gets behind. Yes, I depend on that money, but with careful work, I also should be able to depend on it just a bit less!