we go out for brunch or something with my parents for mothers day, I get my mom a gift
Dh does not get me anything since I am not his mom and the kids will make me a card but since I am not dh mom he will not take the kids anywhere to get me a gift. Thats fine the kids show me in other ways that they love me and I tell them they are the best gift I could get (they really are)
Fathers day we go all out and dh gets to go to a ball game (tho this year I did say I do not think I would be up for it since I will be 8 months pregnant with #4)
so we will probably do something else or he will go golfing and I will get him an engraved gift of some sort from the girls (they pick it out)