DD isn't really old enough at the moment... But I TRY my best to go to things. With dh being gone so much it has been difficult with the little ones. I missed her brownies play cause it was at 6:30ish and bedtime and I didn't know whether to bring her and hope for the best or have to ruin it with the crankiness of bedtime. I find it hard to make those choices.
If I can go, I do. And I feel oh so guilty when I can't.
She had a choir play one night and dh did manage to go with me with the two little ones. Well, it was bedtime, and baby dd decided that she had enough and started taking off her clothes.... LOL she was in her diaper and t shirt and I gave dh the look to take her home!