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Christmas shopping snafu already! WWYD?

post #1 of 11
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Ds is very hard to buy for.  He really doesn't ask for much, he gets allowance that he buys little things that he wants, and is in between 'child' years and 'tween' years.  He is 10.5, but every year (his birthday is in December too so all big summer things are out as to buy him) actually he is just very hard to buy for.  Not that he's picky, he's happy with what he gets but his wants just aren't that much.

 

So now there is definitely something he wants: Skylanders.  Here's the problem: I already started buying stuff on sale.  I have enough for a nice sized "Big" Christmas present and can now just fill it in with small things.  We don't go overboard.  Who knows what he's getting for his birthday.  Like I said he is Hard to buy for!

 

Well now that he has a little $$ of his own, saving his allowance, earning it by washing our cars and stuff, he wants to buy: you guessed it!  Skylanders!  I have already told him he needs to wait and see what Santa brings.  But being 10.5, he has the $$ NOW and wants to buy it Now!

 

Ds knows all about Santa and has for years but I just say that to try to tell him to "save his $$" without coming outright and saying that's what he's getting.  I have NO idea if I don't get him this what I'm going to get him.  He has an ipod from a few years back.  Dh bought a Wii three Chrismas's ago.  He has a watch he bought himself, Legos from past Christmas's, I do NOT want him to have a phone, he has a re-conditioned Kindle that only I put library books on (that I got for a great price), etc. etc.  I do not want him to have a computer, and for a kid that's his age, this was going to be his "Big" gift, even though now he knows he's probably getting one for Christmas - I've been sneaky and told him I have to 'think about it' but the kid is bright and probably knows what the score is.

 

So WWYD?  Take all the stuff that I bought back and let him buy it (for a higher price) himself?  Then I'd have no "Big" gift?  Ahhhhhnonono2.gif

post #2 of 11

My kids reached an age where I couldn't buy in advance any more for the same reasons--they'd buy it themselves.  Or, they outgrow the item.  (Happened with me and buying the latest doll craze.)
 

I would simply say that I have already bought some for future gifts.  If he would prefer to have one now, you will sell it to him at the price you paid.

 

He might forget about it by Christmas (or probably not).

post #3 of 11

If it were me, I would just come clean and tell him I already bought some and let him buy them from me, for the price I paid. If you protest too much he is going to know that you already bought some anyway, and there is no way I could let him pay more!

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But what do I do about his Christmas present then?  He is only 10.5, so I still want to do one bigger gift at least for this year.  I know I am a broken record, but the kid asks for nothing.  So I don't want to waste our $$ filling in his presents with things he doesn't really want anyway, he'll be polite but not use/play with.  

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Originally Posted by mamax3 View Post

If it were me, I would just come clean and tell him I already bought some and let him buy them from me, for the price I paid. If you protest too much he is going to know that you already bought some anyway, and there is no way I could let him pay more!

 

This is what I was thinking I would do. I am sure something else will come up in the next 6 months that he will want. What about an ipod touch. Those are really cool.

post #6 of 11
Stormy, there are some special Skylanders that you can buy online. I know DH got DS one online through ToysRUs. Maybe you can direct those him towards those speciality ones and you keep your stash.
post #7 of 11
Here is one, Dark Spyro http://spyro.wikia.com/wiki/Dark_Spyro_(Skylanders) as opposed to normal Spyro.
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Originally Posted by melsb View Post

Here is one, Dark Spyro http://spyro.wikia.com/wiki/Dark_Spyro_(Skylanders) as opposed to normal Spyro.

Thank you, I will have to check those out...but we don't have anything like the beginning set yet.  That's what I bought, plus a bunch of the characters.  So I think for now I'm just going to say case closed and that's what he's getting.  

post #9 of 11

Consider celebrating his birthday in July - half birthday - so everything is not clumped together at Xmas. At least for immediate family. He can get gifts in December for his b-day from grandparents, etc.  Then, give him his skylanders on his half-birthday.

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Originally Posted by Diane View Post

My kids reached an age where I couldn't buy in advance any more for the same reasons--they'd buy it themselves.  Or, they outgrow the item.  (Happened with me and buying the latest doll craze.)
 

I would simply say that I have already bought some for future gifts.  If he would prefer to have one now, you will sell it to him at the price you paid.

 

He might forget about it by Christmas (or probably not).

 

 

I agree about offerering to sell it to him at the price you paid.  Christmas is still a long time off so if he has been mature enough to save his money up, then it would be good to reward that good behavior. 

 

I also agree that kids eventually reach an age where you can't buy in months in advance. 

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