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Advice for paying down large amounts of debt

post #1 of 9
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I was wondering if there is anyone out there with a success story for bringing down signficant debt (over 25k).  How did you do it and how long did it take?  Any advice?

 

After years of being able to keep things stable (not adding to but not really paying off either b/c of our finances) in our finances after the economy tanked and we both lost our jobs, had serious health emergencies, and DH going back to school, life has taken additional unexpected turns and now I feel like we can't keep our heads above water, never mind keeping stable. We live paycheck to paycheck.  I just need to hear from others who have had similar difficulties and have triumphed.  Right now I just need to know there is hope and that all our sacrifices are going to pay off.  Sometimes you just feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. 

 

Thanks so much!

post #2 of 9

I think a lot depends on #1 - the kind of debt, #2 - your income and #3 - your potential for bringing in more money or reduce expenses.

 

In our case, we sold a lot of stuff although that was hardly the entire story. We also trimmed spending the bare bones. Seriously we did almost nothing except work and watch TV. Oh we'd do some fun things but our personal challenge to each other was "how low can you go?" For a date night one night, hubby arranged "dinner" at the Costco food court (under $5 for both of us and that included dessert) then a free concert in the park. It was pretty cool.

 

At the time we were both working professionals without children so we arranged our financial lives so that my husband's salary paid all our regular bills and my salary just paid my income taxes and all our debt.

 

Many years later, we got into debt again because of some medical problems, a family crisis that led us to adopt our now daughter and problems at the company where my husband worked. It is amazing how so many financial burdens can befall a family in a very short period of time. As bad luck would have it, this was also when the credit laws changed so not only did our minimum payments doubt, but our interest rates rose sky high. In order to speed our debt pay-off, I called every credit card company to see if there was anything they could do. Finally, a few years after the laws changed, credit card companies figured out they better help customers or else they'd never get paid. They put into place programs where they'd freeze your debt while also significantly lowering your interest rate and fixing your payment to something manageable. I remember on one credit card, the minimum payment went from over $300 a month to only $100 - a huge change.

 

Also, if you're getting a significant tax refund, go to irs.gov and recalculate your withholding. You need the money now, not later.

post #3 of 9

I am working on paying down mine bit by bit. Tax returns are a nice way to pay it down. 

post #4 of 9
It is a little by little process. Most likely the debt didn't happen overnight and it won't go away overnight.

You and your DH/SO have to be on the same page because, when things are tight it can add stress to your relationship.

Celebrate the victories, even the small ones. I came here a lot. You will get a lot of support and it makes you feel good.

Make sure you have an emergency stash too.
post #5 of 9

How have you organized your debt payoff plan? Are you paying off the smaller balances first or are you paying down the one with the highest interest rate? It makes more sense financially to start with the highest interest rate ones. Like Cookie mentioned do a snowball effect.....pay the minimum on all of them. Any extra money goes towards the debt with the highest interest. When that is paid off roll that amount into paying the next debt off. 

 

You are not alone.

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How have you organized your debt payoff plan? Are you paying off the smaller balances first or are you paying down the one with the highest interest rate? It makes more sense financially to start with the highest interest rate ones. Like Cookie mentioned do a snowball effect.....pay the minimum on all of them. Any extra money goes towards the debt with the highest interest. When that is paid off roll that amount into paying the next debt off. 

 

You are not alone.

 

This was the advise I was going to give you too.  Once you have one small thing paid off, you will feel a victory and it will motivate you to keep on with the rest of the debt.  Good luck.

post #7 of 9

What we did was first figure out what was owed where. Then we took our overall money and divided it up amongst them. We paid off our smaller bills first then gave the money that had been earmarked for that bill to the next largest bill and so on. For us it took about 2 yrs. Currently our only debt is the house and 2 personal loans.

post #8 of 9

I am in your same boat, Same amount on debt, same feeling that we are living paycheck to paycheck. 

Several years ago I started a debt snowball chart. I leave the things I paid off on the chart. Look at me I no longer have medical bills type of thing. 

The think is with each line on my chart I have what I am going to pay each month and then a graph that looks at my total debt a how it will decline as I pay it off. Its a very good visual and you feel good about updating it with this bill is lower, or this debt is paid off. 

All extra income goes to debt for me this means making weekly payments on my CC. I look at what is needed for the bills and put the rest on the card some weeks I can pay more some weeks I can only pay $25 and some I can't pay anything at all. With my current plan I will be debt free by the end of 2016. I know a lot can and will happen. But the biggest goal is to pay off the CC and the auto loan. After that I have the option of saving for the next vehicle (so we can pay cash) or paying off the student loan with a 2percent fixed rate. 

We have come to the conclusion that our family needs more income. That is the only way we will be able to pay it off in less than 4 years. 

If we get a raise it would cut the time from 4.5 years to pay off to 2 years. That is provided we continue on our current budget.

 

The main thing is I have a plan and the plan is what is preventing me from seeing my $24,268 in debt as something we will never be rid of.

We will pay it off and then we can really work at saving enough to not worry about all the things that would sink us further into debt.

post #9 of 9
Thread Starter 

Thank you everyone!!!  I really needed the pick me up when it came to this.  I know it didn't all come up at once, even though it totally felt like it, we just had several years of financial craziness!  DH and I are going to sit down this week and start brain storming.  We are looking into the HAMP programs for the mortgage.  We unfortunately bought during the housing bubble and now our condo is worth significantly less than we paid for it and our maintenance fees keep going higher and higher.  Has anyone ever done that program?

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