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We had family in from out of town, I knew my 13 year old cousin has been playing with airsoft guns for about 2 years. They are similar to BB guns. Hm and his friends go out in the woods and shoot them at each other., playing soldiers. I have to say I did not approve of this but he is not my kid, and he never discussed it in front of my son after being asked not to. He does live in a very rural area where children are raised around guns. I remember a lot of my older cousins hunting squirrels with BB guns from a early age, and by 10 or so they were going deer and turkey hunting with my uncle. After one of my cousins shot the other in the belly with a BB they were supervised with those and never allowed access to the rifles unless they were going hunting. This was like 20 years ago.

Back to the story, now my younger cousin has moved from air soft guns to real ones. I do not know how many he has but his mom said guns. I was shocked that she takes him to the shooting range or lets him shoot them in her back yard, "to blow off steam." This is a couple times a week occurrence. I personally found it unhealthy to have this form of stress relief. We live in an urban area where guns are used daily to kill someone, so we do view them a bit differently. My cousin is arrogant, racist, and a homophobe, he thinks it is okay to beat up someone who dresses or acts differently than he does. My mom and I wonder how long before he takes a life, we just feel that 13 is to young to have free access to guns. BTW, they are not locked up. They are his guns and in his room in his own gun safe which he has a key for. :(

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Since he has anger issues and other unhealthy issues I agree, not the wisest choice that his mother has made. And if he/she has no problem with him beating someone up over stuff that is really none of his business, then when he shoots someone, his mother shouldn't say a word or have a problem with his going to jail, for a looooong time.

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According to him, he has gotten caught once. His dad came down there to get him, and he said his dad was shocked by the "type" of kids going to his school. He did not mention a punishment, but I doubt he got to much of one. He was probably told not to do it because they did not want to drive back down there to get him. Not because it was wrong to beat the kid up in the first place.
 

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My cousin is arrogant, racist, and a homophobe, he thinks it is okay to beat up someone who dresses or acts differently than he does. My mom and I wonder how long before he takes a life, we just feel that 13 is to young to have free access to guns. BTW, they are not locked up. They are his guns and in his room in his own gun safe which he has a key for. :(

 

The combination of guns with the attitude above is what scares me the most.  I'm not an advocate of gun ownership anyway--refuse to have even a bb gun in my home.  But I agree with you and your Mom.  It's a tragedy waiting to happen.

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I have no problem with kids at 13 having guns and shooting them if they've been trained to be responsible and know how to use them properly. I don't even have an issue with them not being locked up if there are no younger children at home. I personally would still supervise them at that age as I'm a helicopter mom, but I know that in many rural areas that's seen as common. Now the part I WOULD have an issue with is that he's being allowed (or even encouraged?) to use guns as an emotional outlet for his anger. That's scary.
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A teenager with a gun is not a problem in any way, shape, or form IF the child is familiar with guns and handles them safely and responsibly. I also don't see a problem with using a gun to blow off steam. It's very reverant and demands a large degree of focus, that alone can relaxing and put you in a very good mindset. Like the way some people turn to kickboxing or whacking the hell out a golf ball to relax. Yoga or meditation isn't for everyone.

 

As you described your cousin he does not seem to be one to give them the respect that they require. Guns and anger do not go together. Period. It sounds counterintuitive given that a gun is a weapon and obviously deadly. But a gun in 95% of applications is a tool, not a weapon. If that makes sense.

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LOL, Karen and I agree. There are very few threads where that is going to happen.

 

I have no problem with kids and guns. DD has access to our rifles for her personal protection. I regularly see kids younger than 13 (7? 8?) walking around our rural area with a shotgun. It really isn't a big deal.

 

Beating up a kid that is different from you is a whole other issue. Shooting even BB guns or airsoft AT each other is never allowed, much less real guns.

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