Judgemental????

I hope not.

I try not to be and I hope I don't come across that way. I'm really blunt and can be too honest, so I never know if I'll piss someone off. 

I call it like I see it. I never say anything maliciously or with the intent to make someone feel bad, but I also don't curb what I say. Brutal or not I always prefer honesty over pussyfooting around or telling someone what I think they want to hear. A lot of people don't like that or are more sensitive than me and I know does rub people the wrong way sometimes.

Eh, I can be pretty judgmental sometimes but it's something I'm aware of and constantly working on.  There just isn't an awful lot of "gray" in my world. 

I hope I am not.  When trying to point out a different side of the story or point of view, it is sometimes difficult to get that across in typing.... I can see why it happens.

When someone ask a stranger what they think of a personal question or problem, then I would expect they want a honest answer, no matter what the answer might be. And if they don't want the honest answer, they shouldn't ask the question over the Internet to strangers.

And also after a while if a person asks the same questions over and over again, expecting different answers each time, or at least the answer they want, then they shouldn't ask the questions in the first place.

So if I am brutal in answering, then they shouldn't ask the question.

I think we all can be a little judgemental at times.

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Originally Posted by ruthie 

When someone ask a stranger what they think of a personal question or problem, then I would expect they want a honest answer, no matter what the answer might be. And if they don't want the honest answer, they shouldn't ask the question over the Internet to strangers.

 

And also after a while if a person asks the same questions over and over again, expecting different answers each time, or at least the answer they want, then they shouldn't ask the questions in the first place.

 

So if I am brutal in answering, then they shouldn't ask the question.

I agree.

Lot of times people ask a question or for advice, and then they do not like the answers they get. Doesn't make my response judgmental, just not what someone might want to hear.