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Daughter refuses to wear shorts in the hot weather

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   My 13 year old daughter refuses to wear shorts in the hot humid weather and insists on wearing long pants & jeans are summer long. All of her girlfriends & her sister wear shorts everyday all summer long and they are always teasing her why she doesn't wear shorts too and they are alway asking her how she can stand wearing pants & jeans all the time. My daughter is not over weight and has nothing wrong with her legs. She Is always complaing to me that's it's so hot out that she's hot & sweaty . I've told her over & over again to start wearing shorts and she'll be cooler. I have asked her why she doesn't want to wear shorts and she's says because she's feels naked & like everyone will be staring at her legs. I've tryed to explained to her that their is so much comfort & you will be cooler wearing shorts in the heat and that you actually stand out more wearing pants & jeans, when everyone else is wearing shorts. I mean she's just about the only kid  who doesn't wear shorts in the summer. We went the Mall and I was picking out some new pairs of shorts for me and my other daughter. and I told her to pick out some shorts for herself too , but she refused to even look at the shorts on the racks. Yesterday, I picked up my daughter after school. I noticed all the other girls are wearing shorts, I mean all of them, She's the only girl wearing long jeans. I told her again when it's 90 out and 90% humidity

wearing pants is riduculous. and that your not fiting in. Any advice ? My older daughter and my sister think I should make her starting wearing shorts, they say it's for her own good     

post #2 of 24
I went through that with a couple of my boys. I only insisted thy wer Horst when they played tennis and they had to for soccer, since it is their uniform. Otherwise, ifthy want to be ht, let them. It relly doesn't hurt anyone. Both of them outgrew it after one summer f wearing only long pants.
post #3 of 24

I would just let her wear long pants and not say anything to her. Maybe she is self conscious about her legs, thighs or hips.  And feels more comfortable in long pants.

 

I know a lot of women who wear long sleeves blouses/shirts in the summer because they don't like how their arms look.  

post #4 of 24

I would just let it go, but tell her she cannot complain about being hot if she refuses to try to wear shorts. Fix the problem or stop complaining.

 

Perhaps she would like to try soccer shorts that tend to be longer and go to the knees or so. 

post #5 of 24
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She's got nothing to be self conscious of or to be ashamed of, I mean 

she's knows she's got nice legs, so I don't think thats issue

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Originally Posted by Jennifer525 View Post

She's got nothing to be self conscious of or to be ashamed of, I mean 

she's knows she's got nice legs, so I don't think thats issue

 

Are boys perhaps giving her attention because of them? 

post #7 of 24
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On the weekend, she had 3 girl & 2 guy friends over and they all wearing shorts and I did over hear

them ask her why she never wear shorts and gotta be hot in those jeans, My Daughter told them

she 's going to start wearing shorts, but that's as far as it got    

post #8 of 24

I'm confused ... didn't we have this issue come up with a new member just a couple of months ago? Is this new?
 

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I would just let it go, but tell her she cannot complain about being hot if she refuses to try to wear shorts. Fix the problem or stop complaining.

I agree with this. There's nothing wrong with her wearing pants in hot weather, but it's her decision so she shouldn't complain about it.

 

It doesn't matter if you think she shouldn't be ashamed of her legs.  She wants them covered up, and that is her right.

post #10 of 24
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   but is healthy for her ?   

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