Miscarriage? D&C? Natural? - Page 2

I have been reading all of you replies and Thank you. I have had an emotional weekend... not trying to be too revealing here.. but if my pregnancy is indeed not progressing, then I am ready to get everything out and over with.. however at the same time, I am struggling because a D&C is what it is. I will have to have one, to rid of my unborn fetus and there are women out there that choose to have one for abortion reasons.. you know? I am going with most of your advice to wait and see what the bloodwork says tomorrow and go from there. I am in the process of student teaching and we are off this week on spring break. I would really rather wait, but I don't want to start to miscarry in the middle of class. Please pray that everything goes the way it's supposed to. Thanks so much for your support. We hadn't told many family members so it's hard to talk about it too much.

I need to clarify myself for some. I have no intentions at all of EVER having an abortion nor supporting one. I am having a HUGE spread of emotions at this time. This post was never intended to make anyone else's feelings be hurt by bringing up an abortion. I am not offending anyone, and if it were taken that way, that's not really my problem. Noah'smommy, you offered me really good advice and then feel as if you are offended. I was not referring to you and the D&C and abortion issue, you had to have one (just like I will probably have to) in the case of a miscarriage. I am sorry that you feel offended, you really shouldn't. If you read my post, it's more about my thinking... or rationale in my own mind to help me grieve and get through this. I am possibly going to HAVE NO choice in having a D&C because of my situation and decisions from my physician and myself. It enrages me that some women choose to have a D&C to rid their bodies of precious babies and fetus' that many of us would love to have a chance to have. ( I am referring to an abortion) However, there are cases where a D&C should be necessary, like now, with me and with you Noahsmommy. This is my second miscarriage, I believe too, that the feelings of loss never go away. I think about my lost babies more often than not. These are the times when I think maybe I shouldn't have posted on here, being afraid that someone else will make your posting more than it was/was not intended to be, instead of a time to get real support and help in such a trying time. I am so sorry to anyone else if I have offended you. If you really want to know about my bloodlevels, please email me personally or post on here, and I will let you know tomorrow on our decision.
Thanks again, to most who have helped me in such a terrible time. God Bless You.