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10
Time-Crunching Tips for Moms
By
Christine Louise Hohlbaum
Laundry is plentiful.
Time is not. For most moms today, multitasking has
become a must just to keep up. In this fast-paced world,
saving a few minutes here and there can make all the
difference in the world.
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Make a plan. Instead
of swinging by the grocery store multiple times a
week, limit it to once or twice. Use a grocery list
and stick to it. Avoid food shopping when you are
hungry to prevent impulse purchases.
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Delegate. Children
live in the house, too. Institute a few ground
rules. “If you break it, fix it. If you make a mess,
clean it up. Put things back where you found them.”
Follow these rules yourself. Encourage your children
with praise and gentle reminders if they become
wayward and conveniently “forgetful”. Your job is
not to clean up after them, but to show them how
they can do it themselves.
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Place baskets on the stairs.
To reduce the number of times you have to run up and
down the stairs, collect things in a basket to carry
to the next floor. It will save you time and
energy.
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Limit TV viewing.
According to a recent AARP magazine article,
the average American spends 11% of his lifetime in
front of the tube. If the average lifespan is 75,
that’s 8.25 years you could save doing something
else.
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Integrate exercise into your lifestyle.
Instead of wondering when you can squeeze in an hour
at the gym, coordinate a family activity with your
exercise regime. Take a family hike or bike ride.
You will teach your children the value of movement
while getting enough yourself.
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Use a timer.
Distraction is a big time-waster. Give yourself a
set amount of time to fulfill a task. If you need to
clean out the kitchen drawers, allow yourself just
enough time to complete the job before moving on. It
will raise your awareness of the task at hand.
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Say “NO!” Practice it
in front of the mirror. Society does not encourage
mothers to use the term very often. If your
children’s school or social group wants your help,
agree to it only if you truly have the time.
Extracurricular commitments can be all-consuming. Be
aware of what is involved before saying “Yes.”
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Coordinate schedules.
Instead of racing to the dentist for three different
appointments, try to go to your 6-month dental
check-up when your children do.
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Hire a babysitter. If
you are pressed to finish a certain project, get the
help you need. There is nothing shameful about
hiring someone to assist you, even if you just need
the day off.
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Take a break. The
benefits of napping have been vastly documented. A
15-30 minute power snooze leave you refreshed and
more productive than those who go full out all day.
You don’t need to be
in the rat race to lead a productive, fulfilling life.
So snatch a few minutes, shift down a gear or two, and
take a load off. You, and ultimately your family, will
be happy that you did.
About
the Author: Christine Louise
Hohlbaum, stay-at-home mom expert and author of Diary
of a Mother and SAHM I Am: Tales of a
Stay-at-Home Mom in Europe, lives near Munich,
Germany, with her husband and two children. Her popular
parenting ezine takes a zany look at motherhood through
the lens of an American expat. To subscribe:
http://www.diaryofamother.com
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