Name:
Marci
Age: 40
Home: Memphis, TN
Occupation: Former advertising account executive; currently
at home and doing freelance writing
Family:
John, 35
Margret, 3
Audrey, 1
Hobbies:
Most of my spare time is spent on freelance projects and on developing
two online businesses. Also like to scrapbook, but I'm not into the
"competition" of it. I just slap my stuff together pretty
fast. The pages still look good, but I don't agonize over it.
What Funny Things Do Your Kids Do/Say:
My one-year-old likes to sit in the floor and put on necklaces and act
very girly, but she can also throw a ball like a third-grader. My
three-year-old likes to help me cook. One morning at breakfast I asked
her if she wanted to help me bake some banana bread. She said, "No,
I eating now. You'll have to do it." My husband was helping her
with the potty one day and as he stood there, she looked at him and
said, "Daddy, I need some privacy."
The Most Rewarding Thing About Parenting:
When my three-year-old says "Mommy, I love you so very much."
And when the baby comes over and gives me a big, wet, open mouthed kiss.
They also play well together, which is a total joy. I had my kids later
in life, so I think I really enjoy them more than if I had had them at a
younger age.
The Most Challenging Thing About Parenting:
It's a tie between having enough patience and remembering to take care
of myself. Oh, and next runner-up is being constantly interrupted and
unable to concentrate on anything (including filling out this survey).
Favorites:
Elmo videos, the Noggin channel (specifically for toddlers and
preschooler, no commercials), Madeline and Curious George books, Baby
Einstein videos, Brio train track, our dress-up trunk, Fisher Price
dollhouse and farm. My husband and I could not live without Tivo.
Watching movies together is our way to unwind.
Money Saving Tips:
I've bought a lot of toys at garage sales that have had real staying
power: a $2 Barbie phone, a $10 play kitchen, $25 for a doll house, Cozy
Coupe and a rocking horse. I also shop and sell kids' clothes at several
local consignment sales. I make lists for shopping and work very hard
not to pick up extras, even though I always want to. I've also shopped
going-out-of-business sales at Kmart and Zany Brainy to stock up on
children's gifts. I cook from scratch 5 or 6 nights a week, using
savingdinner.com. It's a paid subscription, and well worth the modest
price. Lots of fresh, nutritious food and it saves us from eating out a
lot. We also belong to Sam's Club, but I keep a price book so I can tell
if their prices are really bargains or not.
Best Bargain Ever:
I bought a food processor on eBay for $1. I don't use it a lot but there
are times when it is really handy. Whenever I want something new I
always check eBay first.
In the Kitchen:
Saving
Dinner has great recipes. I sound like a broken record (and no, I
don't make any money from it), but the recipes are great -- my whole
family loves them. Planning out a week's menus is essential to my weekly
grocery shopping, otherwise I overbuy. I like to buy in bulk: ground
beef, boneless chicken and shredded cheese go on sale frequent and all
freeze well. Sometimes I make a big batch of chocolate chip cookies and
freeze them uncooked, in balls. If I want to have fresh cookies, I just
pop a few into the oven for a few minutes. Also, if you clean as you go
when you cook, there's not such a big mess to clean up at the end of a
meal.
Organization:
If you need help organizing, go to www.flylady.net.
It's free and it's a great resource to develop routines that help you
get your house and life together. I also recommend getting rid of the
clutter in your house. Keep everything you love, and toss the rest.
Also, create a "launching pad" in your home near the door you
use most often. We bought a narrow four-shelf bookcase from Target and
each of us has a "cubby" for phones, backpacks, my purse, my
husband's wallet and phone, the girls' shoes, etc. We even installed
coat racks on either side. Everything we need is there when we head out
the door.
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