I recently heard a woman say that being called a "work at home mom" was professionally
demeaning. Being one myself, my initial reaction was to agree with her. "That’s right,
I’m a professional, I’m not just a bored housewife dabbling with a hobby here," I said to
myself.
Upon reflection however, I came to realize that I disagree. Deeply.
Working out of your home while caring for children makes for some unique (and comical)
situations. If you can’t have a sense of humor about these things, then maybe a field job
is more your style.
But let’s face it, just how professional can you be when much of your work is done with a
toddler on your lap? And that is, after all, one of the great benefits of working at home;
you can consult with clients wearing bunny slippers if you like. Who’s to know?
Sometimes we just need to keep things in perspective. I know that the work that I do is
top quality, and I don’t sweat what others think of my work environment.
But I do wonder how that woman deals with some of those little challenges that come
with being a work-at-home parent.
For example, maybe she feels that going out of the house with soggy Cheerios stuck to her
behind would be professionally demeaning. She must have found a way to avoid this. I
should call her...
Not being able to locate a pen because they’re all in use fishing Barbie clothes out of the
toilet. This might be seen as unprofessional.
Or, while trying to convince a potential client how you would be the best choice if he’s
looking for quality, professional results your 2-year-old is proclaiming proudly, "I went
poo-poo Mommy!" over and over.